antagonize
verb [ T ] (UK usually antagonise) uk/ænˈtæɡ.ə.naɪz/ us/ænˈtæɡ.ə.naɪz/
使对抗，使对立;引起…的敌意（或反感）
to make someone dislike you or feel opposed to you
It's a very delicate situation and I've no wish to antagonize him. 这是一种很棘手的局面，而我无意使他和我反目成仇。