habituated
adjective formal uk/həˈbɪtʃ.u.eɪ.tɪd/ us/həˈbɪtʃ.u.eɪ.t̬ɪd/
习惯于（尤指令人不愉快的事）的
used to something, especially something unpleasant
We find children's emotional needs difficult to respond to because we are habituated to disregarding our own. 我们难以对孩子们的情感需求作出反应，这是因为我们习惯于忽视自己的情感需求。