manipulative
adjective disapproving uk/məˈnɪp.jə.lə.tɪv/ us/məˈnɪp.jə.lə.t̬ɪv/
试图控制他人的，有控制欲的
A manipulative person tries to control people to their advantage.
Even as a child she was manipulative and knew how to get her own way. 她还是个孩子的时候就喜欢控制他人，知道如何达到目的。