hold it/that against someone
phrasal verb with hold verb uk/həʊld/ us/hoʊld/ held | held
C2 （因…而）怨恨（某人）
to like someone less because they have done something wrong or behaved badly in the past
He made a mistake but I don't hold it against him - we all make mistakes. 他犯了个错误，但我并不因此而怨恨他——我们大家都会犯错误的。