pass someone by
phrasal verb with pass verb uk/pɑːs/ us/pæs/
（某人）未从中受益；与（某人）失之交臂
If an event or opportunity passes you by, you do not notice it, or get any pleasure or advantage from it.
Do you ever feel that life is passing you by? 你有时会不会觉得自己未受到生活的眷顾？